We are four months into 2023 and if I had to choose a word for the year it would have to be FLEXIBILITY, with a sub-title of IN THE PROCESS.
The textbook definition of flexibility is:
- The quality of bending easily (shaping curved as opposed to straight) without breaking.
- The ability to be easily modified.
- Willingness to change or compromise.
Notice each of these definitions either state or implies that this is “easy” or one is “willing” to be flexible. Now, think about your life; is being flexible something “easy” for you? Are you “willing” to be flexible?
Flexibility doesn’t always function alone. There’s also an element of trust needed. Trust in the process. However, when we trust, when we believe, and follow the process, the gains are huge! Some benefits include:
You learn to trust yourself in the process.
This means confidence in yourself grows. And you know how important we believe confidence is to a woman.
You learn to stop stressing in the process.
Are your worries or anxieties accomplishing anything? Let go and let the process do its job.
You learn to adapt to change.
Change is constant and not easy. However, isn’t that why you’re going through a process? Ask your questions. Get the answers you need and move forward. Not with fear, but with confidence. Face the change head-on and trust in the process.
So, what does all of this talk of “trust the process” have to do with intimates? PLENTY!
I have a friend who took an extra-long time to understand the joy of the right bra and intimates. She had been wearing “I Dream of Genie” bras (over the head, no support, no lift, no benefit). We spent hours with her trying on bras over multiple sessions. To her credit, she stuck with the process. We found bras that work for her and that she enjoys wearing. She eventually stopped stressing that there was something wrong with her (there’s nothing wrong with taking time to find the right bras). It’s my job and my passion to help women, just like my friend. In the process of fitting her, I learned more about sensory issues and the negative and positive power of “feel”.
Several years ago, we wrote a blog post on What to Expect During Your Professional Bra Fitting. We encourage you to read this to gain a better understanding of the process. If you haven’t given yourself the gift of a professional bra fitting, remember it’s a complimentary service we provide our clients. We encourage you to take the leap this year. Schedule your appointment and show up.
Let’s all embrace flexibility this year and trust in the process; whatever processes you are tackling in 2023!
Until we meet again, behind the curtain… —Carla